Yes, that was actually a revelation for me after reading your article! I am always looking forward to see him and change my schedule around it, only to find out a few days before that something in his family or job needed his priority… Now I am learning to set my own schedule, regardless of him coming or not, but it is very hard as we have to fly to see each other so I feel bad if my whole weekend is fully planned when he took the time to fly over, but I am progressing! Not setting expectations is definitely helping me :)


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