I feel very related to your article! I am also dating a married guy and it definitely comes with a lot of challenges and I do also feel like I have to work around their schedule. I believe that true non-hierarchy doesn't exist in an already established couple, it is simply not possible to share the same obligations with your married partner as with your girlfriend/boyfriend who lives apart from you... It is the sad reality I stumbled upon when stepping into their marriage and I probably wouldn't date a married couple again because of this.


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